I Visited Willa Cather’s Grave

One day while reading a short bio of Willa Cather I stumbled upon the fact that she’s buried in Jaffrey, New Hampshire, only an hour and a half from where I live.

As you can imagine, I was ecstatic.

I was shocked when I learned she’s buried in NH because I knew she was born in Virginia and raised in Nebraska. Though she died in Manhattan, she asked to be buried in Jeffrey because apparently it was where she wrote a lot of her novels. She’s buried there with Edith Lewis, the woman she lived with for decades.

The sign on the Meeting House in Jaffrey, NH.

Recently my mom and I made the trek to Jaffrey to see the grave in person. She’s buried in the Old Burial Ground behind the Meeting House, which is a really beautiful old building in and of itself. When we pulled into the dirt parking lot on that rainy Friday morning we weren’t quite sure where we were headed, but fortunately we easily found her grave site because it’s in a corner near a stone wall (which we had to hop). The burial ground itself was actually kind of beautiful, even though that might sound weird. There were so many old, weathered headstones in all kinds of shapes and sizes. Part of me wanted to just stroll through it row by row and take it all in, but the rain encouraged us to be quick to avoid getting completely soaked. I was almost glad it was raining because it made the day feel cozy, peaceful, and even sort of eerie.

When we finally arrived at her headstone I couldn’t help but gasp. There she was. There’s a great quote from My Ántonia on Cather’s headstone, which made me so happy because I love that book immensely. There were also a bunch of rocks and pennies on her grave, most likely from others who admire her work as well.

I was definitely the happiest person in this burial graveyard (and the only person besides my mom).

Standing in front of Willa Cather’s grave was surreal. Too often it can feel as though authors are these untouchable, legendary figures who live on forever through the pages of their work. While visiting a grave like this it’s impossible to not feel a wave of realization wash over you: this woman was human, with hopes and dreams and flaws and desires just like the rest of us. Though I sometimes like to believe that the books I love hold a sort of elevated notion of truth and meaning that emanates from their spines, it’s important to remember that these texts were written by people just like us. Writers exist beyond their work, which is easy to forget when you’re engrossed in their stories and captivated by their words. Visiting Cather’s grave made everything feel much more real, tangible, and within reach.

Needless to say, I want to read everything that Willa Cather has ever written now, even more so than I did before. I’m so happy I had the opportunity to visit such an interesting piece of literary history— it’s definitely a place I would visit again in the future!

Have you ever visited the grave sites of your favorite authors? (Also, how weird is that question out of context?!) Do you have a favorite novel or short story by Willa Cather? Let me know in the comments section below!



25 thoughts on “I Visited Willa Cather’s Grave

  1. I visited Hemingway’s grave up in Idaho once. It’s not a habit of mine to lounge amongst the dead, but Hemingway’s writing–or at least his short stories–have always enrichened my life. For me, he’s up there with J. S. Bach. “Big Two-Hearted River” and “A Clean, Well-Lighted Place” are transcendent works of art.

    I love Willa Cather’s writing as well, and need to re-read it all, as it’s been many years. You were lucky to get to visit her. Nothing “weird” about it.

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      1. hehe well his wife believed he would want his heart buried in Dorset, while his ashes are interred in Poet’s Corner (Westminster Abbey). I’ve been to the grave in Dorset, but funnily enough not to Poet’s corner to “see” the rest of him 😉

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  2. I’m pretty sure I’ve read some short stories by Willa Cather (my degree in Literature makes me think she probably had some stories in one of my literature anthologies), but I can’t immediately bring to mind any of them.

    Anyway, this is an awesome post, and I’m sure it was quite an awe-inspiring trip for you. That’s pretty cool. I don’t think I’ve been to any author graves yet, but perhaps someday I’ll be able to visit a few.

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  3. I haven’t read any Willa Cather, although my friend had to for school and was not a fan. But maybe I’ll try some day! I’ve never been to any author’s graves, I don’t think, but you’re so right about it kind of helping you to realise that they’re not better humans than the rest of us 🙂

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  4. Cemeteries are generally beautiful because they’re so parklike. Of course, I’m a psychopath so don’t trust my word on it.
    I haven’t read Cather yet (give me time!) but I do want to visit other authors graves, like Ray Bradbury’s Tolkien’s…

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